Mar 10, 2010

CANCEL THIS SHOW!! This is buffoonery and explotation of our children!! Enough is enough!!


As a black mother of five beautiful children, four of them girls, I am outraged by the buffoonery and exploitation of T-Pain's The Return of Freaknik Cartoon on the Cartoon Network. My childen LOVE the Cartoon Network and watch many of their favorite shows like SpongeBob, but how dare the network give the green light to such an ignorant, classless and tacky cartoon like The Return of Freaknik?
The cartoon premiered on March 7 and is full of profanity, rife with weed-rolling, and encourages a lifestyle of being pimps, promoting drugs, getting money, and calling women hoes and bitches while priding themselves with living with their mommas in dilapidated neighborhoods.

The kids in the cartoon are on a crusade to bring Freaknik back to Atlanta. Freaknik is an annual meeting in Atlanta, Georgia, primarily of students from historically black colleges and universities. But it has turned into an unofficial gathering where non-college students come to party, drink, cut-up and cause havoc in the ATL.

I saw the cartoon and I am furious. I am furious because it was us black people, who brought this idea to cartoon network as if it was Ok and commonplace in our community. It was T-Pain, but what can we expect from a man who parades around in clown costumes, big hats, gold-teeth and a chalice full of liquor.

As a mother of five, I will not stand for this. Today I am calling for the CANCELLATION of the cartoon Freaknik on Cartoon Network and ask for all of you to support me in this crusade by joining the facebook group THE OFFICIAL MOTHERS AGAINST T-PAIN'S FREAKNIK CARTOON ON CARTOON NETWORK! http://www.facebook.com/home.php?#!/group.php?gid=360068066819

Our youth are impressionable and are being negatively programmed now by Cartoon Network- a station that us mothers thought was a safe-haven.

I teach my children better and strive to be a positive example in their life everyday. As an author I made sure that I wrote a book that has positive images of a black family with a mom AND dad and children who lived in a home. That's the life I live and I want my children to know that's the life they can live as well. We have an obligation as a community to put pressure of those who THINK they can exploit us and our children while we sit idly by and do nothing but go get our hair and nails done.

We are NOT a people who only care about the latest clothes and fresh-new sneakers!! We are a diverse people, educated people, ambitious people, who LOVE our children and do not appreciate the negative images you perpetrate upon us! How dare you? We are not stupid or blind! Do Cartoon Network think we care more about cars, champagne and gold chains than we do about our kids?

Yes, when I was a child I watched some things that may have been looked at as non-sense but never at this level. They insult our women like it's ok to be called a bitch or a hoe and flash your ass like it's the key to getting ahead. There is no excuse for this. How many people sat in the meeting at Cartoon Network with T-Pain and actually approved this? What were they thinking. By approving this cartoon it is sure-fire proof of their attitude against the black community. They don't think we are worth a damn. And they surely don't think we give a damn about our kids or our community. This is a frightening reality. Whatever some blacks do in their lives to perpetuate these images does not exempt the REST OF US from the responsibility of helping the younger generations make good choices and from being positive examples for them.

The cartoon constitutes pure nothingness!

I am hurt and saddened by what I see in this cartoon. Yes, it is a reality that some of our children are lost and hurting and that some schools are out of control. But it is not a problem just solely in our community. I am going to use my resources and do whatever I can to turn the tables on this negative portrayal of MY people.

We are NOT all about money, power, and material gain! We want the same attrative cartoon images for our children like white people have with Barbie and the Latino community with Dora. The behaviors portrayed in Freaknik are appalling. The guys pride themselves with having bling and they aspire to be rappers so they don't have to do anything else in life, as one character stated in the cartoon.


Sadly, black people are at the bottom of every economic category in this country. And instead of trying to uplift our children we attack them through this cartoon by giving them nothingness to asborb into their minds with these indelible images that are brainwashing them.

Our youth need help and this fodder fuels the fire of ignorance. We are not going to sit by and compain. We are taking action. Today we are taking steps to shut-down this cartoon and I will be working to organize a protest in downtown Atlanta at the Turner building which broadcasts the Cartoon Network!

Join the fight and do your community good. Enough is enough. Let's stand for SOMETHING for our children!

Mar 9, 2010

A hard lesson learned for being too soft


Raising kids is hard. I love the job. But it's even harder for the kids--I guess. They have to follow SO MANY rules that maybe they just crack under pressure. And in this case--It's PEER PRESSURE that my daughter cracked under!
Yesterday I had to discipline Kaitlin and teach her a valuable lesson that could save her life later. DON'T LET PEOPLE IN THE HOUSE WITHOUT MY KNOWLEDGE!!

On yesterday, Kaitlin let a little boy from next door in the house.
I was upstairs.
Kaitlin came upstairs and told me he was in the house.
I told Kaitlin to tell him he had to leave because she was doing homework.
She went back downstairs and told him (I thought).
30 minutes later Jo-Jo starts screaming like crazy!
Mikaela brings Jo-Jo upstairs and says the boy slammed the back door on Jo-Jo.
I said, "how could he slam a door when I told kaitlin to tell him to leave 30 minutes ago?"
I go downstairs and the boy is still in my house!
I tell him to leave and go home.
I asked Kaitlin what happened.
She said the boy wouldn't leave the house. Mind you this boy is younger and smaller than her.
I told her it's HER HOUSE and don't ever let someone tell you what to do in your house and she should have told me he wouldn't leave and she should not have let him just stay in my house without my knowledge!
Lesson learned -- Don't EVER let anyone in my house without my knowledge!
Kaitlin got in trouble! She knows better!
End result...Jo-Jo has a swollen hand -- which I though was fractured -- from being slammed in the back door by the little boy who should not have been in my house in the first place!
I went next door and told the little boy's grandma and she said, "He's gonna get a whuppin!"
Had this little boy picked up a knife or injured himself in my home, I would have been in a WORLD of trouble when I didn't even know he was STILL in my house.

Kaitlin was being soft and she let someone else rule her in her own home. I'm not having that. I wanted her to know for one, never let anyone on our home and also if something like that happens you always have to TELL mommy!

This was seriously about safety. Now I know that my kids know better. And I can't risk this happening again. What if Kaitlin would have let in a serial murderer. Then what would everyone have to say then? Well if she don't know, NOW SHE KNOWS!!

Mar 2, 2010

Whatta man, whatta man, whatta man--what a mighty good man! Happy B-day RUDY!


He never complains.
He would rather just let it roll off his shoulders than to complain. He never argues. He just says what he has to say in a voice so calm it can frighten you because you don't know what might come next. He never curses or swears. More than I can say for ME! While I am in a work in progress, he is almost perfection.
He is my husband-Rudy Smith- and today he's a little older, a little wiser and a lot more loved.
This blog post is a day late! Yesterday was my husband's birthday and I was busy with the kids celebrating it.
I have a very special man. Unlike any man I have ever met. I'm sure there are other good men out there, but I'm sure glad and very much BLESSED that I have one. On yesterday, my girls decided to celebrate their daddy with a "surprise" birthday party. Well, my 6 -year-old actually told my husband we were planning a surprise party for him so I don't know how much of a surprise it was! But it was nothing big, just us. Just a little gesture that meant a whole lot to the kids and my hubby. We baked a cake and I will totally left it up to the girls to decorate it...




They tried really hard and actually did a good job!

Every time a year goes by or a hallmark of a birthday is upon us, I start thinking about how lucky and blessed I am to have such a wonderful family and to have a husband with such admirable qualities. He loves me for everything that I am and every flaw that I have and I love him just the same.

So Happy Birthday to my husband and many more Happy years to come!

Feb 24, 2010

I'm going GA-GA because Goony Goo-Goo is coming soon to YOU!



Oh my! I'm going GA-GA!!
As the release date of my first children's book, Goony Goo-Goo and Ga-Ga Too, draws near, I just can't contain myself because this is a dream that is real and surreal. For years, I have pushed my stories to the side. I am a writer at heart and I have always dreamed of writing the same kind of stories that I read every night to my kids. Writing erotic tales is not my cup of tea. I have five kids and I don't need or want to write fictional sex tales about how to get them...know what I mean. But I like reading some of those stories. A few of my best friends are best selling authors who write erotic novels.
But what takes my breathe away are whimsical tales for children. I love books by Ezra Jack Keats and Jan Bret. I grew up reading Amelia Bedelia, those were my favorite. My own kids library at home are filled with literally hundreds of Caldecott and Coretta Scott award winning books. From classics like The Hungry Caterpillar by Eric Carle to some funny new tales like Leo Cockroach Toy Tester and one of my all-time favs Click-Clack Moo, Cows that Talk.
I LOVE children's books! I am an avid reader and a strong believer that you have to actually READ to your children to foster a love of reading in them. So for years I would write them and just store them on my computer. I always had "other" things to do like live life, have babies and build a successful career. So my dream was deferred for many, MANY years.
Until... I got to the point where I just didn't FEEL fulfilled. I have everything I could ever want out of life. But I am a writer and have never actually written a book? Just didn't seem right. So last year I started this journey toward fulfilling a dream and a NEW destiny. My goal is to enlighten as many young minds as I can and take them on a insightful and delighful journey of the mind with my whimsical tales.
I am so giddy over Goony Goo-Goo and Ga-Ga Too and I appreciate all the love and support everyone has shown. Your children will surely delight in reading my stories and I'm glad to share my stories with the world! Please join my fan page on Facebook (Goony Goo-Goo and Ga-Ga Too) and my personal page www.facebook.com/kiamorgansmith. And of course follow cincomom.com and www.twitter.com/kiamorgansmith. There will soon be a website kiamorgansmith.com where you can purchase the book. Stay tuned! More adventures to come!
 

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